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Christmas Reflection

posted by:
Dustin Ver Beek

It’s pretty obvious 2010 hasn’t been our best year.  In many ways, we’re glad to see it go.  Still, we reflect back the journey and the ways that you’ve all come along side us during this time.  We thank God for blessing us through your kindness and support. 

I don’t think everyone will understand exactly what I mean, so I’ll give you a few examples from just the last three weeks: 

A few weeks ago a group of special Ridge Point Community Church members dropped off a huge box of food.  So much food, I couldn’t even lift it.  They circled us and prayed for us and showed such love and compassion. 

At the Ensing Family Christmas party, we were presented with a couple dozen sizable gift cards to use to offset takeout food expenses.  When Lindy is nauseous the last thing she can do is cook, so these come in so handy.

There’s been a group of 2nd graders from Holland writing letters to Lindy and coloring pictures and cards.  We get a new envelop filled with more of them every week.  It’s hard to be sad when you read/look at these honest and uplifting expressions by these little people. 

Yesterday, I was presented with an over-flowing gift basket from my Marketing coworkers at Herman Miller.  Inside, in addition to several goodies and movies, there was a certificate for a weekend away to Great Wolf Lodge and $500 cash to use for the trip.  Our instructions were to make memories and enjoy the time together.  Amazing. 

This past summer and fall, we were the benefactors of several fundraiser efforts.  Once again, we’d like to thank the For the Love of Lindy Committee for organizing the bake sale, our friends at Dutch Studios, Crazy Horse, Elhart Collision (Community FUNDay), Kibler’s Kreations, Beechwood Restaurant, Avon, Dress Code, Englesman’s Greenhouses and the list goes on and on. 

Also, for all those that have sent us money or other assistance this past year, we thank you all.  Your gifts had made life easier and allowed us to focus on what really matters.

Patty, your daily messages of love are so appreciated.  What a gift you are from above. 

Thank you to our family for helping care for our kids and for taking us meals.  We could not do this without your loving care. 

In the midst of an unimaginable situation, we are so blessed.  This Christmas holds a new meaning for our family; we pray it does for you too.  Merry Christmas. 

37 Responses to “Christmas Reflection”

  1. Stacy Wiersma says:

    Merry Christmas to all of you! You are such a wonderful family. We are so very blessed to know you. We are praying that 2011 is a miracle year for you.

  2. holly says:

    Merry Christmas VerBeek family…..

  3. kathy terp says:

    Blessed Christmas greetings to you and your families!!! This WILL be a better year!!!
    With love and prayer,
    Jim and Kath

  4. kathy terp says:

    Christmas Blessings to you and your families!! THis WILL be a better year!!
    With love and prayer!
    Jim and Kath

  5. Aunt Carole says:

    2010 will be an unforgettable year for all of us, as you allowed us to journey alongside you. You have taught us so much. God has spoken volumes through you. As God has always remained faithful to you and carried you each step of the way, you have remained faithful to Him. We know He will continue to do so in 2011 as He leads, walks beside, and heals you in ways you never could imagine. May our Christ child continue to remain your “wonderful counselor, almighty God, everlasting Father, prince of peace.” Always, love & prayers…

  6. Megan Van Kampen says:

    Merry Christmas to a wonderful family! 🙂

  7. christy says:

    been thinking about you lots the last few days. praying that to the extent that 2010 stank, 2011 is beautiful and amazing.

  8. Jenifer says:

    Merry Christmas guys – hope you enjoy the holidays and have a great 2011!

  9. Michelle says:

    I have found that in the deepest, darkest times of despair, those are the times that I let my guard down. I can be truly thankful for the little things. Or have the biggest belly laughs about the things I would not normally laugh about at all. I pray every day for you guys. That you are able to feel the blessings pour down on you. And I pray that we are all able to feel the blessing that you are to all of us with your raw honesty and willingness to share. May 2011 be EVERYTHING to you that 2010 was not. You are loved more than you’ll ever know.

  10. dad ver beek says:

    Dear Dusty and Lindy…..The love shown to you not only comes from a higher power, it also comes because of the type of people you are. You have put your faith and God first. You both have been a witness to so many people. I could not be more proud of you both…… Love, Dad

  11. Dani says:

    Merry Christmas Guys!!! I pray that you all will have a blessed Holiday.

  12. Jana Ver Beek says:

    Christmas Blessings to you all! ((Hugs))

  13. Missy VerBeek says:

    Merry Christmas VerBeeks! We love you guys!

  14. Rachel says:

    Lindy, you are a blessing. thanks for sharing. love you guys!

  15. Kathy says:

    Merry Christmas! Enjoy every moment with your precious family.

  16. Julia Masterson says:

    Merry Christmas VerBeeks!!!

  17. Livvy Zimmerman says:

    You are loved!!!!!!!

  18. tammy vandoeselaar says:

    Praying 2011 will be a year of peace for your family, thanks for sharing so many of your thoughts on this journey, it puts priorities into perspective for us all! With love from our family to yours!

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